This first post is dedicated to my hubby of 1 year - Jeff. We celebrated our 1 year (October 12) wedding anniversary by sleeping in till 3pm (late night previously - got home at 5 am from clubbing in NYC), doing laundry and cleaning our room in our PJ's and eating our 1 year old wedding cake - which tasted like ice chips hhaha...no matter how good you think you wrapped that sucker up it still got freezer burns on it!!! I'm just glad that we are no longer considered "newlyweds" so people can stop asking us "So....how's married life??" Ugh...the dumbest and most annoying question ever! Not to be rude, our answer is always "it's good" and a :) right after.
We've been together 11 years...that's a long time but it never feels like it.
Like any other relationships we've had our ups and downs which is pretty normal since I was only 17 and he was 19 when we first got together. What the hell did we know then! I was adamant on not being in a serious relationship, but he caught me off guard. Long story short - we got through it - we got through HS and College - which is very tough with all the new people you meet and all the new experiences you go through. We matured together which really helped solidify our relationship. There's really no one else in this world I want to travel with, meet people with, live, enjoy and experience everything with. Jeff is just an amazing person - he's good hearted (no ounce of malicious fiber in his body), funny (great sense of humor), fun, endearing, laid back, easy going, understanding, loving, caring, kind, patient, strong, hardworker, multi talented and most of all he loves me unconditionally.
Never once did I ever feel that I was settling down because he's my "comfort zone" or because we've been together so long that it'd be a waste and hard to start over with someone else. I honestly completely unconditionally irrevocably love him with all my heart and being. My heart aches for him when he's not around, my body & mind is not at ease when he's not next to me - even when I'm sleeping! weird..., he's my love, my entertainment, my soul, my everything..
I always tell him that we'll never grow old or at least look old...cause we're constantly laughing...he keeps me laughing all the time ... Jeff and I never run of things to talk about, make fun of and do. Everyday with him is fun & never boring even if we're just sitting around at home in our PJ's doing nothing.
One of the biggest reasons (other than the obvious) why I want to put making babies in the back burner is because I'm selfish. I don't want to share Jeff with anyone at least not yet. I want his 100% attention and love just on me and vice versa. I want it just to be me and him...always...forever....just me and him....
Never once did I ever feel that I was settling down because he's my "comfort zone" or because we've been together so long that it'd be a waste and hard to start over with someone else. I honestly completely unconditionally irrevocably love him with all my heart and being. My heart aches for him when he's not around, my body & mind is not at ease when he's not next to me - even when I'm sleeping! weird..., he's my love, my entertainment, my soul, my everything..
I always tell him that we'll never grow old or at least look old...cause we're constantly laughing...he keeps me laughing all the time ... Jeff and I never run of things to talk about, make fun of and do. Everyday with him is fun & never boring even if we're just sitting around at home in our PJ's doing nothing.
One of the biggest reasons (other than the obvious) why I want to put making babies in the back burner is because I'm selfish. I don't want to share Jeff with anyone at least not yet. I want his 100% attention and love just on me and vice versa. I want it just to be me and him...always...forever....just me and him....
xoxo
2 comments:
Looks like I found my Edward =)
congratulations on the first year of laughs, love, and life together! and you read my mind when you respond to "sooo how's married life?!" we have no idea what to say so we do exactly the same thing, haha!
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